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    December, 2006

    孤独的人和寂寞的人

            昨天跟大学的好朋友讲诉心事,她劝我,不要再这样了,这样下去会越发的空虚,这是个恶性循环的过程,她说,我知道,你不是孤独,你是寂寞。

           这段时间,我一直在等一样东西,一样自己都不知道是什么的东西,这句话就如同拨动了我的心弦,原来,我只是在等一个可以理解我的人。Thanks God ,还有这么一个人!

           是啊,我不是孤独的,我是寂寞的,张楚说:孤独的人是可耻的。我的理解是因为他们不会寻找自己的快乐。究竟孤独跟寂寞哪个是比较级呢?我想,我比孤独的人还要可耻。

            孤独和寂寞是有本质区别的。

            孤独的人未必寂寞,但是寂寞的人注定孤独,那是因为,孤独是暂时的,因为身边没有他人,没有倾诉的人,而寂寞则是刻在骨子里的,即便身边有再多的人,却没有人能走进他的内心世界,就算每个人想听他倾诉,可是他本人却没有倾诉的欲望,或者说不知道从何说起,或许其中的苦乐酸甜只能在自己舔自己伤口的时候慢慢品尝了。

             我是孤独的还是寂寞的?我想,只有我自己和深知我的人知道了。

             我也不希望有人知道~~

             这样就很好,这样就很好

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